Age: 22
Relationship Status: Single but always mingling
Occupation: Funemployed (5 months post-grad)
Income: Whatever my parents give me
Astrological Sign: Aries Sun, Gemini Moon, Leo Rising
What is your first thought every morning?
I need a job.
What is something you do solely for you?
I NEVER skip breakfast. Ever since I was young, I made it a routine to sit down and eat breakfast every morning. I also get easily fixated on foods so I have eaten the same breakfast for the past year lol.
What is something you dread?
Honestly, as much as I want a job, I’m dreading the 40 hour work week. I had a full time internship summer of 2023 and literally quit because I was so miserable. I had no time to myself, especially because it wasn’t a consistent schedule.
What is something you are looking forward to?
Being able to financially support myself and spoil my loved ones. I am so thankful to have my parents’ support but I can’t wait to be able to make my own money. I can’t wait to randomly buy gifts for them too.
When do you feel most accomplished?
When my parents tell me they are proud of me. I didn’t hear it much growing up but now they tell me quite frequently. Words of affirmation is my #1 love language.
What is something you regret investing in financially?
My baby pink medium-size Telfar bag. I honestly don’t like it anymore, and I really had no business buying it as a broke college student.
What is something you regret investing in emotionally?
Almost all of my past situationships.
What are three things you think are absolutely worth the investment? (financially, emotionally, or time/energy-wise).
Not in Order:
1. Journaling
2. An everyday designer handbag
3. A group of girlfriends (sisterhood is everything!)
When do you feel most creative?
When I am around other creative people, I instantly feel inspired to create something. Do I always complete the idea? No.
How often do you compare yourself to others? When?
A lot, its really easy with social media. Also, now more than ever, being post-grad and seeing how everyone is living their lives so differently will easily have me comparing myself to others. Especially on LinkedIn (lol).
What is one thing you’d like to thank your past self for?
Journaling. I started a year ago and I feel like it has helped me process my emotions so much better. After writing my thoughts out, I have a more clear mind and make better decisions. It is also really nice to read back and see all of your growth.
What is one thing you believe about your future self?
I know I am going to get the life I desire. I see myself making a LOT of money, working a job that I love and being able to do the things I daydream about. With ease.
What is one thing you learned in childhood that you have now had to unlearn in adulthood?
Not speaking up for myself. I have immigrant parents so standing up for myself is deemed as disrespectful. Now, I find confrontation to be extremely uncomfortable but it is something I am working on. I need to talk my shit more!
Have you ever felt pure joy? When?
In college, when my girls and I would pregame before a function. The whole process of running around the apartment, borrowing clothes, helping each other with makeup/hair, taking shots, blasting music, then running to the Uber. The pregame is always better than the actual party (the debrief the next morning is 2nd place).
What is something that would feel really good to get off your chest?
There are 2 guys that I really wronged and when I apologized, I was super emotional and said the wrong things. I wish I would have taken some time to understand why I did what I did and give them a more meaningful apology. I feel bad every time I think about it.
When do you feel most in your feminine energy?
Around my older sisters. I feel like they bring out the softest side of me. They have played the biggest role in who I am today so when I’m around them, I feel all warm inside.
What is one interaction that changed your life?
I finally confronted my “first love” and asked why we couldn’t be together since we lived close now. He then told me he never had the intentions of being serious with me, even though we would talk about marriage/our future together. It really just made me realize that some people are actually wicked.
What is something you want to give up?
Not executing my ideas. I have so many unfinished projects in my head but it is so hard for me to actually complete them. I don’t know why.
What is something you want to take up?
Being consistent with Pilates!
What do you believe is a universal truth?
“Whatever is meant for you, will find you.” It brings me the most peace.
BONUS: Tell me something good.
Appreciate whatever era you are in because one day, you will miss it.
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